Self-Improvement – Roxana Murariu

Bits and Bobs – A Live Commonplace Book

February 15, 2026 by Roxana

What follows is a collection of thoughts and pieces of wisdom I have gathered so far. Some are my own words, others are quotes or ideas that have resonated with me along the way. This project is intended as a live commonplace online notebook, updated often. Some parts may seem inconsistent, even contradictory. Life itself tends to disagree with solid certainties. If you, dear reader, stumble upon an idea that feels irrelevant, wrong, or contrary to everything you’ve lived, maybe it isn’t for you. Skim …

Cryptomnesia and Intellectual Humility

November 4, 2025November 1, 2025 by Roxana

“Has it ever occurred to you,” the old lady went on, “how much we go by what is called, I believe, the context? There is a place on Dartmoor called Grey Wethers. If you were talking to a farmer there and mentioned Grey Wethers, he would probably conclude that you were speaking of these stone circles, yet it is possible that you might be speaking of the atmosphere; and in the same way, ifyou were meaning the stone circles, an outsider, hearing a fragment …

Parkinson’s Law, Hawaiian Time, and the Space Between

August 18, 2025August 17, 2025 by Roxana

People get cast in molds (of status and roles) for which they are variously equipped. The problem lies between man’s creativeness and diversity and the rather specific needs of his institutions, for most cultures and the institutions they engender represent highly specialized solutions to rather specific problems. For example, in England during the early days of the industrial revolution, villagers and field hands were brought into the factory to work. These first generations of mill hands were not conditioned to the whistle. Like all preindustrial …

Lynley Dodd: Stories Hidden in Plain Sight

August 30, 2025July 27, 2025 by Roxana

The fewer the words, the harder the job. Dame Lynley Dodd Finding non-anthropomorphic children’s books about animals with exquisite rhyme and repetition is remarkably difficult. When our daughter turned two, that crucial age for language acquisition, we discovered Hairy Maclary from Donaldson’s Dairy, and we immediately fell under the magic of New Zealand author-illustrator Lynley Dodd. We devoured every book we could find, meeting the unforgettable cast of characters: Hairy Maclary himself, Schnitzel von Krumm with his very low tum, Bitzer Maloney all skinny and bony, …

When Resilience Requires Slack

November 3, 2024 by Roxana

The traditional approach to understanding complex systems has been reductionist, breaking them into smaller, simpler components. While effective for understanding mechanical systems like clocks, where each cog serves a clear purpose in isolation, this method falls short when applied to dynamic, interconnected systems like living organisms, ecosystems, weather patterns, or even social structures such as economies, organizations, institutions, supply chains, or families. To look at systems like these and only see parts is to miss the force that ties them together. […] You don’t …

Reading for Knowledge

September 15, 2024 by Roxana

Reading is integral to our daily lives, serving various purposes ranging from relaxation to in-depth learning. How we approach reading often depends on our objectives — whether we are unwinding with a novel, seeking specific information, or engaging with academic texts. Reading for Leisure Reading for leisure is an unhurried journey through stories, ideas, and emotions. It allows us to experience pleasure, relaxation, and sometimes escapism through the written or spoken word. The motivation is personal enjoyment rather than academic, professional, or life admin …

Borges’s Approach to Overcoming Creative Barriers

February 26, 2024February 25, 2024 by Roxana

There will always be a moment when the journey from conception to creation seems to stall, and the clarity of our goals becomes obscured. Be it analysis paralysis, writer’s block, the paradox of choice, procrastination, burnout, impostor syndrome, or perfectionism, this is a shared experience among us all because virtually everyone, at some point, will face their version of a “wall.” The inertia waves surrounding us become brutal, leaving us questioning our direction and purpose. Consider Jorge Luis Borges, one of the key writers of …